Friday, August 8, 2014


I’m not concerned with your liking or disliking me… All I ask is that you respect me as a human being.
Jackie Robinson

There’s something that’s been bothering me ever since I started comedy, but mostly since I started writing this blog a few years ago.
I’m aware that I have a public persona of being overtly sexual. I AM a very sexual person. I know that a lot of my comedy is blue & many of my status updates and/or tweets aren’t necessarily family-friendly & are carnal by nature. Though I love a good dirty joke as much as the next guy, I don’t think this automatically gives men (who don’t really know me) the right to talk to me in a sexually-charged, dissonant manner.
I’m grateful for all of my readers, even the pervs. I’m not here to criticize what your turn-ons are. If my words get you off then yay for me/you.
Unless we’re friends or fuck buddies or have an established sexual discourse, it’s not okay with me that you speak or write to me in a vulgar way.
Some of you reading this may think that by putting myself & my sexuality “out there” means that I’m inviting this type of hormonal harangue, but I guarantee you, that’s not my m.o.
I write this blog mostly for selfish reasons- it’s cathartic. Beyond that I think many of you (I hope) are entertained or can relate even to some little nugget of what I refer to- whether it be about sex, mental illness, comedy/art, addiction or life in general.
As I write this post I feel like I may sound immodest or heedless. I love nothing more than getting feedback, comments, emails, texts & messages regarding what I’ve said or written. That said, like anyone else, I don’t appreciate being spoken to without the respect I feel I deserve. Maybe you’ve misinterpreted my intention with my candor and or humor. There is a familiarity that has to be earned by both of us. I don’t write this blog to get attention or to get laid- believe me when I say that when I’m attempting to do either of those things you’ll know it. It’s not a compliment to talk to me like you’ve paid me to be your sexual servant. I’m always flattered by adulation (like most) but unless I’ve made it clear that I want you to talk dirty to me, I ask that you please don’t do it. 
I am after all, a fucking lady.


Anonymous said...

Beautifully written, Claire.
Now get over here and suck my cock.

ClaireElyse Brosseau said...


Anonymous said...

Funny? Yes, Respect? You got it. I also feel for you, since you seem to be a very troubled lady.

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